Is anyone here? I believe this is the longest stretch I’ve gone without posting in 8 1/2 years. But unlike the past, the absence feels ok and there’s less guilt involved. Guilt about not blogging? Yes, it does happen sometimes, but if we were all wondering about the slow death of blogging before, I think we can now say with certainty that it’s not the same as it once was and hasn’t been for a long time. Personally, for me, it wasn’t just the collective slow-down that triggered less frequent updates, but I confess that my heart wasn’t into blogging anymore once my brother died. It’s like my desire to write died with him – partly out self preservation, but also because I’ve been dealing with something personal that may turn out to be one of the more difficult things I have had to deal with. I worried that I was phoning it in this past year and I apologize if it seemed that way. For those of you who have stuck around all these years – you deserve better, and while I’m not throwing in the towel, I’m admitting that I don’t have the capacity to blog like I once did. This start up job (which has now turned into full time), our business, freelancing, my family…this is life right now. It’s so full (arguably TOO full), but also brimming with challenges and possibilities.
I have so many photos from our 2 week trip to Hawaii to share, but I’m not quite ready yet. If you follow us on Instagram, you’ve seen some photos. I also did a fair amount of live streaming while on the islands and you can see the replays here. We’re fighting jetlag, but slowly beating it and took the weekend to ease back in. On Sunday, we took a rather spontaneous trip up to the Cloisters. It’s such a great place to sit and think quietly, and a rather nice way to transition back to the city.
Today was back to work – the kitchen for Mark, the office for me. Next week…school.
Happy first day of September.
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Golden hour. Good any time of year, but in summer? The light is stunning. The harsh shadows from the day dissipates to soft, warm light and the city glows as the sun bounces and reflects off buildings. Now that the High Line has finished its last phase of construction, the bend where it veers towards the Hudson before it wraps its way back down to street level is a great place to watch sunsets from the city. And we had a great sunset last Saturday.
When the sun went down, nobody wanted to go home. We hung around the High Line till the last bit of light, and even though we had already walked a couple of dozen city blocks, the girls wanted to walk around some more. We don’t go out at night too much, so city lights are still a bit of a novelty for the girls.
Watching the sunset that evening, I thought about how fast the summer is passing even though we still have a month left before school starts with many adventures still to go. But it’s hard to ignore all the Back to School signs and summer clearance sales at stores as they start to bring in Fall wardrobes. There’s that point in the season where you start inhaling all thing summer with a bit of urgency because you notice that the light is already changing and the days are getting shorter as we chip away at daylight a little bit everyday.
The girls are done with camp for the summer now so our daily rhythms will change again. This week we try and wrap things up before heading out of town as we always do in August. It’s usually a busy week for Mark as he scrambles to get everything done, usually at full speed right till we’re in a car headed for the airport. For me, it’s the same – more so now that I have a job. Although I’ll be taking some freelance work with me, vacations are that much more precious. See you on the other side.
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Summer wouldn’t feel like summer without a trip to our friend’s lakehouse an hour and a half north of the city. It’s pristine waters, good company, good food, and a chance to escape everyday life. It’s a secret pocket tucked away that remains hidden from time. No running water or electricity; there is phone service, but it’s pretty much the only thing that connects you to modern life.
It was a good way to cap off the month as we headed into the last week of July.
Wow. July. It’s almost hard to process. So much packed into this month. And while it’s pretty unbelievable that we’re facing August tomorrow, July felt long, like we lived through a whole summer.
On the job front, it’s been a wild ride that took us a bit by surprise. We officially pivoted the company after a 3 day hack project took over our time and captured users’ attentions. We went to market with Meerkat, but three weeks ago we opened up Katch to Periscope users and the reception was crazy. Seems like being able to archive live videos that was meant to be ephemeral struck a chord. It’s pretty amazing to witness something that you helped create go viral with its users because they are truly excited and believe in your service. We’re in an amazing position right now and the product is just getting started, but the road to here was not without its bumps. Live stream video is still in its infancy, but the community very much feels like the very early days of blogging and twitter, and I’ve been meeting new people online in a way that hasn’t happened in a long time. This part is exciting. Nobody knows where any of this is heading, but our startup does hope that we can help shape the future of mobile video – lofty goals I know, but you can dream big.
If you’re on the Periscope app, we’d love to connect with you. You can find us at whimsyandspice. We’ve done a few streams so far and as self conscious as we are sometimes, it’s been fun! Last weekend, we streamed the making of this watermelon feta salad. If you missed it, you can watch the replay (and others) on katch.me
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Took a morning off last week to visit the new Whitney Museum, a much delayed visit after we unsuccessfully attempted to go on opening day. I love how the city is as much an integral part of the museum experience as the artwork it houses. There’s something about the architecture of the new building that blurs the outside with the in. There are outdoor spaces that connect each floor with an exterior staircase, and couches line up opposite large windows for expansive city views on some of the gallery floors. The move from the Upper East side to the Meatpacking District where the High Line ends was a great move, and the new Whitney feels just as airy as the old building felt heavy and oppressive.
We haven’t had too many city adventures this summer. We usually have a checklist of favorite activities and places we like to hit up every year and we’ve barely touched it. Summer’s usually when we spend large amounts of time together, but everyone in the family’s got their own thing going on at the moment. We spend our days apart, and come together in the evenings. It seems unlikely we’ll make a dent in our list at all, but it does seem inevitable that this is what life will increasingly look like as the girls get older.
One thing that’s really changed for me in the past year is that I rarely go out at night anymore. To be honest, I don’t really miss it, but the rare times that I do is during summer evenings. There’s nothing quite like sitting outside as the sun goes down with some kind of drink in hand, the city buzzing around you. Will need to do that at least once or twice before the weather gets too cool. Hope you’re having a great summer.
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I look at these photos taken in upstate NY last weekend and think how serene these images look. Summer calm. They encapsulate what Northeast summers feel like – hazy and green, the air kissed with humidity. We’re experiencing the season in handful of moments like these and doing the best we can to savor it because the truth is, when you’re in a retail-based business, you’re already thinking and preparing for the next season ahead. Holiday inquiries are starting to come in. It’s a weird head space to be in sometimes because I’ve always had a hard time focusing on the present. This doesn’t exactly help
But if it’s only pockets of time that we have at the moment to truly enjoy summer together, we’re doing a bang up job cramming as much as we can in, to the point where Miss C lamented with a sigh that she wished we stayed home some weekend so that she can “nap on the couch.”
Kids. So dramatic. But I’ll admit that I wouldn’t mind a weekend away from the car. Back-to-back weekend road trips have been hectic. We haven’t slowed down all summer.
I can’t remember a time when I wanted – no, needed! – more hours in the day. There’s a lot going on; things are happening (I think!) and it’s been good. But as is my nature, it’s never enough, and I need more time. Sometimes I ask myself, why is that? Why is it never enough? But I usually just shrug it off even though I often feel like I’m hanging on by a thread.
I read all these articles on simplifying your life and think to myself that it sounds really nice, but life is complicated and sometimes even messy. I’m starting to acknowledge that I think I prefer it this way. It’s a state that I think I thrive in, which sounds really weird I know, but my mind is at far more at ease when there’s too much going on than when there isn’t. The irony at play here is that I feel like I’m in a constant state of trying to organize the chaos.
Humans are funny.
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